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Help Didi (Dijana) with this terrible tragedy (10)

Astrid 
Quote | 1 month ago

Last week there was a fire in the house of our dear friend Didi

https://unitedcats.com/en/user/didi9058

Her mother, dog Zara, and five of her cats were all killed. This is such a tragedy. Only her son Dario got out of it alive. It happened just after Dijana left to go to work. It is heartbraking what happened, in 30 minutes her whole life was gone. X X

As her friends, we can try to give her support in this very difficult time.

There are formus to give your condolances

English forum:

https://unitedcats.com/en/forum/851/67520/condolen...

Spanish forum:

https://unitedcats.com/es/forum/150/67521/condolen...

Local forum in Croatia:

https://unitedcats.com/hr/forum/166/67519/katastro...

There was no insurance for the house. Everything inside is gone, notthing could be saved. The little money they had was spend on the funural of her mother.

So we started an action to give her a bit of financial support. We opened a PayPal account where you can donate so she can try and start again.

We put the account on the name of her son (Dario) because this is all to complicated for Dijana now. But i know him very close also, so all donations will get to Dijana.

The cost for the people who want to donate are 0. Donate in your own currency. The account is set op in USD but if you put it on your local currency (euro) there will be no costs.

Please help her to start over again.

Write this with the donation:

UDC, your name and your name on UDC and your country.

So they know who the gift is from.

https://paypal.me/dkovaciczg

Thank you very much dear friends

Astrid

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Quote | 1 month ago

I will keep reposting this everyday, so this thread does not get bumped down in the forum, and not seen.

Everyone, donate at this Paypal Account To help Didi - https://paypal.me/dkovaciczg

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Quote | 1 month ago

From Joann Kubacka -

Didi's house was not insured; and is uninhabitable after the fire. Dijana has always lived very modestly, she helped animals whose house was constantly a large group, and now she lost almost everything - the closest person, beloved animals and possessions. She survived only because at the time of the tragedy she was not at home.

We are all in the Christmas mood now, we make wishes, we give gifts; at the Christmas Eve table we put an additional place for an unexpected guest.

We can share not only a good word, expressions of compassion for Dijana, but also a modest donation, on a specially created account at PayPal:

https://www.paypal.me/dkovaciczg

The account is set to USD by default, but by choosing the currency of your own country from the list, you will not incur any handling fees. However, you must have a PayPal account.

Every penny counts, let it be even the value of the meal, which we would share with an unexpected guest at the Christmas Eve table.

Quote | 1 month ago

You can donate at this Paypal Account To help Didi - https://paypal.me/dkovaciczg

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Didi 
Quote | 1 month ago

I lost my family in the fire. My mom, my Zara and my cats Hanny Žiga , Žiži Lucya and Tonka . He was a part of the house. The biggest tragedy in all this is that I lost my mother and my pets.

At this time, which is very difficult for me, I have discovered that what I know for a long time is true, and that is to have another family, a large family from all over the world, I am happy at this difficult time that I have the support of all of you, thank you to all of you in the words of support, in your thoughts and feelings for us, thank you for the gifts, and thank you very much to all who donated to help us.

Everyone you know I'm writing with google translators so I do not know if the translation will be good in all languages but this one word can be recognized in all languages.

BIG THANK YOU , MY UCD FAMILY WHO IS HERE FOR AS , AND WHAT WE ARE WHEN WE HAVE OVER.

Quote | 1 month ago

You will always have your family here my friend, and you will someday see your dear family in Heaven again. X

Anyone can donate at this Paypal Account To help Didi - https://paypal.me/dkovaciczg

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Didi 
Quote | 1 month ago

Letter to my UDC familyX

Last year was the worst in my life, I lost one baby, so the second, and the third, at the end of the year I lost my mom and the rest of my furry children.

I can not tell you how it is. I still can not believe and accept that terrible loss. We also lost a home that destroyed fire, but it's not as scary as tragedies of lost lives. Do not spend the day, but again and again we do not ask my husband and son and me, the only one we stayed, how did that happen? how is that possible ? What could we do to stop it ....... but there is no answer and it will never be.

I can not tell you how it is. I still can not believe and accept that terrible loss. We also lost a home that destroyed fire, but it's not as scary as tragedies of lost lives. Do not spend the day, but again and again we do not ask my husband and son and me, the only one we stayed, how did that happen? how is that possible ? What could we do to stop it ....... but there is no answer and it will never be.

People say that time will cure wounds, but they are not right, they remain forever, doctors say that it is necessary to go through several stages of grief and then recover, but they are not right. Some tragedies are too great to be understood at all.

Maybe someone wonders how in this situation they can come to the page. My answer is: I can come and I come every day because here my friends are my big internet family and this is great comfort in these difficult times. I can not watch the pictures of my angels because it hurts too much, but I need this page and the people I know here.

Thank you all for your prayers, your thoughts, your support. Thanks to everyone who gave the money, I know very well how hard it is to give money when you do not have enough for your own needs.

I do not know what to say this is such a big loss and I do not know how to survive. I fight with the feeling of guilt because I'm alive and they are dead. I just hope they are where they went, now all together and they can hear my remarks and know how much I love them.

I write with the help of the translator, so I hope there are not too many mistakes.

Quote | 1 month ago

Didi, I am so glad you come to the site everyday. I am glad you get comfort from your big internet family. We are here for you.X

Quote | 1 month ago

Didi, you have to stop blaming yourself and asking what if I had done this or that. It has already happened. I believe life is a sequence of events. We can't see the future, so when we leave our home in the morning, we don't know what will happen. You had to go to work that day, like you have done every day.

None of us know what will happen in a day. We have to live each day, not fearing the future, and not regretting the past.

Your angels are safe in Heaven now, at peace. Now, you must try to find peace for yourself. I know you think you will never find peace again, but with the help of your friends, we will help you to wake up in the morning and want to continue.

You still have your husband and your children, and Nera and Caramel. They are your reason to continue on. X

Quote | 1 month ago

X Anyone can donate at this Paypal Account To help Didi - https://paypal.me/dkovaciczg

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